Do you call someone who behaves like this your true friend?
She
keeps bragging about how many jobs had approached her even before graduation
will be teaching tuition for $160/month
keeps talking big like how much her 'tutee' improved
keeps showing off money matters
forever wants to win you (example: you talk about some nice food you had, then she will ignore you and talk about her experience with food)
always interrupting your speech
boasting that she's gonna be an entrepreneur
didn't even wish me on my birthday
is very insensitive about others feelings
always leaving me out of outing plans (please don't use distance as an excuse)
always late in handing in her FYP tasks (regretted unfair for peer evaluation)
full of excuses (sick... very sick... my head very pain... no time... help my ah yi work... came home very late...)
show off
brag
boast
blow her own trumpet
talk big
swagger
She keeps talking about wanting me to be her bridesmaid, telling me not to forget her after graduation. Is she truthful about all these? I don't think so. Do I want such a friend? I've reconsidered this friendship and it's definitely one I will not treasure. I have been reflecting today. Could it be we had aged, experienced and we ain't those naive girls with no hidden agenda and stuff ? I wonder how much worst it could be in the working environment.
Well, I guess my friend was right. It is difficult to find true friends in poly. Partly because RP makes a change class every semester. Anyway, it's only 7 schooling weeks. She remains as a friend but I wouldn't treat her as nice as before. She will only be a lunch time company.
I really am thankful to have some friends. You know who you are ;) Thank you for being my friend, I love you